Did she lead me on or does she have feelings for me? Dating is often about signaling. Not to want them to be the best, fastest, first, smartest!FWIW, my oldest, a singleton, was overdue and 8 pounds, 10 oz at birth. If I’m making an active choice in my head to mislead someone in the hopes of having my way then I’m just a user, a liar or a coward. She's devastated, not so much because of the split, more so because of the uncertainty of what lies ahead. Have you asked that question at recent doctor visits? Hmm...on your question with crawling. They don’t care enough to wonder about their actions and how they have affected you. What I misread was the extent to which she was a little tease. You misread the signals I was giving off. He pulls up on everything. I called her last week, my intent was to let her know I understood the whole being distant thing, that she meant a lot to me, and that if she needed anything I would be there. I dunno about the imitation thing- with the exception of rolling over, Alex hit all his big physical milestones behind Josh, and he had Josh there to imitate. Suddenly, her life really did suck, and she became very dependent on others for help, which due to her prior behavior, wasn’t on the top of anyone’s list. But next time, try to be more aware of what that man is thinking and feeling, and you'll spare yourself a lot of pain. Perfectly normal kid. Penny does not. Lisa, you're a really nice, intelligent, attractive girl, and I'm truly sorry to have to say this, but I didn't mean to lead you on last weekend by fucking you. Sometime I do read your words and I comment on them. Lisa, please don't be offended by what I'm about to ask, but have you been with many men? Although, I must admit, your little hostility act is giving me a hard-on. because… the rest of us don’t care about your feelings. 1 on MTV on October 17, 1986.. She army crawled before that. I’m sorry if my actions were harmful but you provoked me to it. Some of it, admittedly, is my fault. Call me.". I’ve been the one making a sincere apology, and I’ve received a sincere apology. And so when I hurt someone inadvertently, that’s the first aspect of the apology: if you know me, you would know that I never meant to hurt you, and apologize for doing so anyway. My observation is that the expectation some women have that men “should” care about them stems from the relationship many women have with their fathers. To admit you hurt someone is to admit you’re not the person you’d like to think you are. No matter. When I was living in Africa, addressing a wrong was something that had to be dealt with almost immediately, kinda like trying to correct the balance and discord that was created. Nor does the decision whether to sleep with someone alter their behavior in the slightest — they just move on to the next person they can delude. There are a lot of people who think they “know” me based upon what I post on this blog. Moving forward I make it a point not to give signals to a woman unless I will act upon their interest in getting to know me. Don't cry because it's over. Nobody can force us to stay hurt and angry. I ask because I had one that was "lazy" and did a body crawl type move =) He eventually turned that into crawling. It is hard not to worry though, mine are 7.5 months and still not sitting up on their own entirely! Girl said “she doesn’t want to lead me on?”? And, I don’t even really agree “morally” that they should. This is no great loss for you. And Paula, you’ve just old us on another thread that you don’t get to choose the men you are with, they choose you due to weight, age, etc, you are left with the dregs. They come to believe that all men have their best interests at heart (or should) when the men simply don’t. It took Alex weeks to scoot two inches to actually get across the floor. There is a bit of flirting, and I believe that that we both have feelings for one another. If there were natural justice in THIS life, we wouldn’t need laws or jails or even moral codes because everything would take just magically care of itself. But I have never, never set out to hurt someone intentionally, or to deceive someone intentionally to get what I want. I’ve known people though who refuse to ever admit any flaw or weakness within themselves to the point where it might just be a psychological disorder.

Interesting question from Susan. Comment on what I say all you want; just don’t try to pretend you’re not doing so when you’re called on it. Bottom line -- they are all so different. Bob, this is exactly what I mean…you’ve been moved, for whatever reason, from the douchebag category to the decent person category. Sorry. And they aren't small falls either, she really comes crashing down...Often it helps me to turn my worried thoughts into prayer. But really it is next week. Neve's been crawling for 2.5 months and shows NO signs of walking on her own. If it’s too soon to make an educated guess (and you really want to get laid), only have sex with men who you sexually want so badly, you don’t care if you never see them again. Why or why not? Ned rolls to where he wants to go. "Hi, Len, it's Lisa. And it wasn't much of a crawl. I guess I can see how all that foreplay might have been misleading. People are expected to just “deal with it” which will make them look like “winners” and on another side if you don’t have to deal with the consequences ( broken heart, stolen pension…) then why care? Please don't feel embarrassed. Zero. Danny was 8.5 and I considered that pretty early---I think you might just be seeing some really mobile kids. But you are busy people and usually I am a prolific blogger. It took Alex weeks to go from 2 steps to fully walking.

And both times not only did I feel this huge weight lifted from my shoulders for admitting that I was wrong, but I literally saw or felt the transformation that apology had on the other person. If you’re the benchmark for emotional maturity, Vox, I surely hope I never develop it. I think because I posted it on Tuesday everyone thinks today and tomorrow are the, Why not support the Mommy by using our affiliate link when you, Above the Law - A Legal Tabloid - News, Gossip, and Colorful There are the people who hang on to something even though the other person has never promised them anything. Yet, even with these so-called intentions, we do. Obviously, in the post that triggered all of this, the OP believed that the guy liked her after 3 dates and sex. Robert Palmer recorded a cover one year later and it was released as the fifth single from his 1985 album Riptide.The single hit No. We like to believe that we’re good people, kind people, with no intention of hurting anyone. The logic of I’m responsible for what I say but I’m not responsible if they believe me is such hog wash. That is like blaming the elderly who lose their money to a con artist. Or do we tell ourselves we are actually interested but just crazy busy or somehow otherwise engaged? Some of it, admittedly, is my fault. It took me a while to figure it out, but I finally realized that a big misunderstanding had occurred: You think there's something between us. Or give them. Both get ridiculously frustrated and cranky and I think part of this "comparison" is my desire for them to LEAP and leave the crankies behind for at least a little while. The logic of I’m responsible for what I say but I’m not responsible if they believe me is such hog wash….If I’m making an active choice in my head to mislead someone in the hopes of having my way then I’m just a user, a liar or a coward. I don't want to lead you on. Sometimes, you have to do the right thing, even when it feels uncomfortable. You can blame the victim all you want, but that’s just an excuse to be a douchebag. She said "I don't want to lead you on."

His son did the same. To this day, I firmly believe that girl was flirting, putting on the coy act. Either they care or they don’t. – Moxie. He is super active. Well I think we have to put that exchange in context: it was about dating someone a few times and having them “fade” on you after sex. Create a free website or blog at WordPress.com. Not to be Type A. Cut the cord and move on. I spent a good deal this morning apologizing for putting my husband through hell these last couple of weeks. You mean nothing to them. Usually those people are damaged or broken in their own way, or pissed off at themselves for being duped, and so they’ve decided that they’re going to continue the cycle of abuse so they can relieve their own pain. (C) 1985 Universal Island Records Ltd. A Universal Music Company. We want them to feel our pain. All we can do here is speak broadly unless someone provides a specific example. – Paula, You can’t force someone to be accountable for their behavior. That’s not denying responsibility or being insincere…that’s living your life in an honest and ethical way. Reading it made me sad because it was all about installing dread into the girl to keep her anxious and therefore interested. At some point we’ve all got to take personal responsibility. It took Nate 3 days. So let's be friends, okay? Save yourself more … Because it’s hardly characterized by a complete failure to take someone else’s feelings into account, and a lack of accountability for one’s own actions, which is exactly what you’ve advocated throughout this and other threads.

), I have apologized even when I know I wasn’t wrong or the cause of the problem, in order to keep the peace. I like that you're keeping it honest! >> [shrug] There are many variations of normal. I believe it’s real, but I also believe that you can introduce so much negativity into your cells that it literally poisons them. Is it really that hard to respond to the post and not the person? I know it's hard not to worry, but I have seen those babies and they are precious and perfect! I was referring the average stranger match.com you’ve just met. From the angle at which he puts his penis in you to the way he post-coitally strokes your hair, there are many signs a man gives off that will communicate whether he's truly interested in you. But the people who really know me IRL know that what you see is what you get. I personally think this is why we have such an amount of violent crime in the US. They’re not. Their best buddy started WALKING at 9 months.I think you have a good reason to be concerned (penny's slow growth), but try not to let that bleed into other area's of the kids development, as you will drive yourself batty!That said, it is hard not to worry! She is over 2 now and still runs stifly and falls often.

If I did receive a call back, it was a booty call, and I could decide whether to take it or not. For example, as you were straddling me, I never squeezed your buttocks; I only rested my hands on them. You Do Now. He is a physical kid.But Nate always waited on physical milestones until he could do it perfectly. He was apparently in no rush. "There's a new Cuban place on Eustace Street. Like I said above…there are a lot of people who walk around feeling not the slightest bit guilty for how they treat others. This is all happening way to fast. The first time Nate crawled he did it across the house. Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email. I am pretty sure crawling is no longer even considered a developmental milestone, since so many kids skip it, or find an alternative, like scooting or Ned's rolling.

As far as misleading someone, I haven’t done that intentionally. You have none, and have to sleep with whoever will have you. We have to work on our own judgment in determining who to let into our lives. There’s the flip side of the coin. I started hanging out with this lady several months ago. Wait, why do we need to take personal accountability? Please don't feel embarrassed. Sorry, I’m not buying your sexual empowerment bs after reading that. This is harsh but generally the truth, I think.

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